Travis! Kim! Jacob! Tom! Inside GQ’s Mega 2023 Men of the Year Party
“I’ve got a good feeling I’m going to meet Kim Kardashian tonight,” said Jacob Elordi with a cigarette dangling from his lips. He had just strode onto a wraparound balcony at the Chateau Marmont. With the lights of Hollywood stretched out before him, the man who stars as Elvis in Priscilla looked like he might shake his hips at any moment. It was the Thursday night of GQ’s 2023 Men of the Year party, and the Aussie heartthrob was there to celebrate his leading role in our annual year-end issue.
And he was most looking forward to seeing Kardashian, his fellow MOTY cover subject alongside Travis Scott. “The covers were all awesome,” Elordi said. “But I loved Kim’s cover. She looked so rad.” Soon enough, his feeling was proven correct. To get the evening started, GQ global editorial director Will Welch and his MOTY co-hosts—Elordi, Kardashian, Scott, and Tom Ford—gathered for an intimate dinner. (See more photos here.) Elordi and Kardashian sat next to each other at the long table in the penthouse.
GQ’s first Men of the Year issue came out in 1996. The franchise embraces the most important and fascinating figures from the previous 12 months, the actors and musicians and entrepreneurs and filmmakers and designers and athletes and creatives whose work, in whatever medium, was definitive in our culture. (Despite the name, it is not a gender-specific thing.) And every year we throw a big party in Los Angeles to bring the people from the pages of MOTY together. This year, the evening was sponsored by Glenfiddich, State Farm, Spotify, and Google Pixel.
And come together they did. As guests pulled up to the penthouse for a pre-dinner cocktail, many of them beelined for Past Lives director Celine Song to congratulate her on her debut flick. “I’m so honored,” Song told Olivia Rodrigo, who praised the MOTY subject’s Oscars-contending film. “Celine just made her first movie and she’s the belle of the ball,” added the musician and actor Jason Isbell. “I mean, she’s amazing. She popped out fully formed like she’s Townes Van Zandt or something.” Nearby, GQ designer of the year Jonathan Anderson consorted with Song’s husband, the writer Justin Kuritzkes. The JW Anderson founder and Loewe creative director designed the costumes for upcoming Luca Guadagnino films Challengers and Queer. Kuritzkes wrote both screenplays. “We saved each other’s lives” on these projects, said Anderson. Why? “Well, it was both of our first films!” said Kuritzkes. Post-strike, Hollywood was roaring back to life.
As dinner hit the tables, Welch rose to give a toast to Ford, whom he profiled in a career-spanning exit interview for MOTY. “I’ve already said quite a bit about Tom Ford in the magazine, and he said quite a bit back,” said Welch, who explained that he wanted to shout out Ford’s singular world of luxury and beauty. “One thing that I didn't get to in the piece was that I think Tom has this unique ability to combine sex and money…Money is the most boring thing—”
“Not really!” shouted Kim Kardashian.
Dwyane Wade stood up next to honor that entrepreneurial spirit. “As a former world-class athlete, I know what it takes to be successful. And to do it at the level that [Kim is] doing at Skims, that grit is why you, as a woman, are a man of the year,” Wade said. “Your work ethic is something that we all admire. And your business acumen is revolutionizing what business looks like.” Kris Jenner, sitting across from her daughter, nodded her head. “So can we thank you for living in your purpose?” Wade raised his glass of wine high to a beaming Kardashian.
“You’ve gotta follow Dwyane Wade, good luck!” Elordi cracked when his Saltburn co-star Archie Madekwe, rose to salute his buddy. “The boy can dress, I dunno if anyone's seen those pictures with the little Bottega bag, but not many people can pull that off,” Madekwe laughed. “But you are also so much more. Congrats on being a brilliant actor and an even better human being. It's hard to be both.”
After dinner, Kardashian revealed what she and Ford had been deep in conversation about earlier in the night. “He shared a story with me tonight that Marilyn Monroe used to crochet nipples onto her bras in the exact spots that they should be, so that they always looked perfect,” she said, “and it reminded him of my nipple bra for Skims. And I didn’t know that! It was such a great story for me to hear.”
It was the eve of Saltburn’s wide release, but several other guests were counting down the hours before their own drops. As everyone got up to hit the red carpet, unfurled outside the adjacent Bar Marmont, André 3000 shared his feelings about the fact that his first album since 2006 was dropping in just a few hours. “I’m excited, but nervous, because it’s something new,” said the Outkast alum about New Blue Sun, his woodwind-heavy record. “I know that feeling,” said rising pop star Tyla. Distinctly so: she was releasing a remix of her global smash hit “Water” with Travis Scott that night, too. Scott walked by, FaceTiming his daughter Stormi, who elicited coos from Kardashian and Jenner. “I’m so happy to be celebrating [Travis], and also our song coming out in one hour! It’s been very hard to keep it a secret, because it’s so exciting, but the day’s finally here.”
The big Men of the Year party downstairs lit up Bar Marmont. Tremaine Emory and Acyde reprised their No Vacancy Inn DJ act for the first time since June 2022. As Emory emceed behind the booth, Succession patriarch Brian Cox, wearing a leather jacket and sunglasses, held it down in front next to Leon Bridges, also wearing a leather jacket and sunglasses. Supermodels Alton Mason and Evan Mock embraced by the bar and flashed their iced-out wrists for the camera. At MOTY, nobody was too cool to fan out, including Olivia Rodrigo and Conan Gray. “We’ve been rewatching Mad Men and we just saw Jon Hamm! That was so exciting,” said Gray. Meanwhile, Paris Hilton and Dua Lipa’s link-up in the smoking section set off flash after flashbulb. Holden Jaffee, AKA Del Water Gap, was on a mission to find Maestro actor Matt Bomer. In the film, Bomer plays Jaffee’s real-life paternal grandfather. They found each other on the red carpet. Megan Thee Stallion’s arrival caused a party-wide energetic ripple. Frances Tiafoe put it best: “Everyone is here, bro,” after meeting Off-White creative director Ib Kamara, who had made the tennis star’s suit.
Meanwhile, in what passed for a quiet corner, Celine Song flipped through the MOTY issue with Jonathan Anderson and Past Lives stars Greta Lee and Teo Yoo.
Leather was clearly the move of the evening. Welch wore a custom leather suit by Pharrell for Louis Vuitton, Giveon came through in a beefy Prada bomber, and Winnie Harlow had a patent leather fascinator on her head. But there could only be one biggest fit. In a new MOTY tradition, we gave out the third annual GQ Big Fit of the Night award, presented by Glenfiddich. The competition coming off the red carpet was fiercer than it’s ever been. (Is MOTY men’s fashion’s biggest night? We think it’s getting there.) After extensive (and totally objective!) deliberation, Alton Mason—wearing a fiercely cool leather ensemble by Balenciaga—took home the official winner’s medallion, custom-made by jeweler Greg Yuna. “It’s not fair!” claimed Fear of God designer Jerry Lorenzo. “It’s Alton’s job to look amazing in everything!”
The headliner of the night proved that there’s basically only one person who can clear a packed smoking section and bring everyone to the dance floor: Travis Scott. He did just that when, around midnight, he and Tyla hopped up behind Chase B to premiere their spanking-new “Water” remix live for the very first time. The crowd swelled, and the MOTY cover star ricocheted above them, lost in the moment with Tyla, who sang every word. Erewhon recovery shots were being passed around outside, but all the energy was inside. Their song was officially out in the world—now, every hip in the building was actually shaking.