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The best sex toys for women have come a long way—and made a lot of people come—since the humble beginnings of steam-powered vibrators and rubber dildos. It’s always been a more wide-ranging category than the equivalent toys for men. (Though one look at the best sex toys for men shows that changing in recent years.) It can be difficult for beginners to know exactly what adult toys to buy for the first time, whether you're shopping for yourself or a partner.
We're here to recommend the best sex toys for women, so you'd be right to assume we're writing for women. But this is also a reminder for anyone—guys, or otherwise—looking to get a toy for a woman or person with a vulva: you don't need to be uncomfortable about being replaced in the bedroom. A sex toy can't cuddle with your partner, or whisper filthy compliments in her ear, or remember exactly how she likes to be touched. Sex toys are your allies, not your adversaries, in the pursuit of pleasure.
They're especially great for closing the “orgasm gap”: a concept that refers to studies showing that straight men reportedly climax during sex much more frequently and consistently than straight women. Usually that's because women's main pleasure source, the clitoris, is often overlooked (or ignored) during heterosexual penis-in-vagina sex. But get this, men: sex can be so much more fun and interesting than putting tab A into slot B, especially once you get some fun-loving tools into the mix.
These days, having lube or a couples vibrator or even a prostate massager in your nightstand—you know, the kinds of toys you can order on Amazon these days—is just a sign you like feeling good. Because sex is more fun for everyone when everyone is having fun, you know? So here are some of the best sex toys aimed at women and people with vulvas.
The best sex toys for women, at a glance
- The Best Vibrator: Magic Wand Rechargeable, $150
- The Best Bullet Vibrator: We-Vibe Tango X, $79
- The Best Pressure-Wave Toy: Womanizer Premium, $199
- The Best Anal Plug: Njoy Pure Plug, $110
- The Best G-Spot Vibrator: Dame Arc, $145
- The Best Dual-Stimulation Vibrator: We-Vibe Nova 2, $147
- The Best Long-Distance Vibrator: Lovense Lush 3, $129
- The Best Nipple Clamps: CalExotics Crystal Chain Clamps, $15
- The Best Strap-On Harness: SpareParts Joque, $150
- The Best Finger Vibrator: Hot Octopuss Digit, $87
Types of sex toys for women
While there are about a zillion different kinds of sex toys out there, there are a few main categories to consider when shopping for sex toys for women.
Clitoral vibrators: The clit is the most important part of most women’s sexual anatomy when it comes to pleasure and orgasm, so it makes sense that many toys are aimed at pleasing it. You can use pretty much any vibrator on the clit, but if you’re looking for one specifically for this purpose, often a small toy (like a bullet vibrator) will work the best, especially if you want to use it during penetrative sex.
Pressure-wave toys: These are a newer category of clitorally focused toys, which use rhythmic pulses of air to stimulate the clit hands-free. It’s a sensation that sort of has to be felt to be understood; some people say it feels like great oral sex, while others say it’s more of a sucking or tapping sensation.
Insertable vibrators: Internal erogenous zones like the G-spot can enjoy vibration too! An insertable vibrator will have a longer shaft than a clitoral vibe, and may have an upward curve that aims for the G-spot. You can use an internal vibrator on its own, or pair it with a clitoral toy for explosive blended orgasms.
Wand vibrators: While originally designed and marketed as “body massagers,” these large, round-headed vibrators are also beloved by people who need (or want) a lot of power to get off. And, naturally, you can also use them for actual body massage if the mood strikes!
Dildos: For those who love penetration, there are a ton of different types of dildos to explore. Some are realistic (i.e. dick-like), while others are more abstract-looking; some are squishy, soft silicone, while others are made of glass, metal, ceramic or wood; some are designed to target specific zones, like the G-spot, while others are more about just providing a sensation of fullness.
Anal toys: Although cisgender women don’t have prostates, there are still a lot of nerve endings in and around the anus that make it a pleasurable area for many women. Butt plugs, anal beads, and anal vibrators are just some of the options available.
What to look for in women's sex toys
Materials: “Look for sex toys made from body-safe materials, such as silicone,” advises Ness Cooper, a clinical sexologist and therapist. Some other sex toy materials considered to be body-safe include ABS plastic, glass, and metal. Avoid toys made of porous materials (which can breed bacteria) or chemically harmful materials (like plastics that leech phthalates), because they can cause irritation, infections, or worse. If you're uncertain what a toy is made of, skip it—a good sex toy manufacturer will be clear about what their products are made from, especially anything that touches skin.
Versatility: Shop smart and you can find toys that pull double (or even triple) duty. For instance, a typical G-spot vibrator can also be used externally on the clitoris, if that's the mood you're in. On top of that, “you can always use the sex toy with the vibrations turned off,” Cooper says, in which case it’d be more like a G-spot dildo.
Size: “Smaller is always better when trying a sex toy for the first time,” Cooper says. Start small, and once you've get some experience under (below?) your belt, you can size up. In that case it might be a good idea to check the measurements of the toys you already own, to give you a sense of where you’d like to go from there.
Usage: Prior to shopping for a new toy, think about how you want to use it: By yourself, with a partner, or both? In combination with another toy or on its own? In the bath? On vacation? In your thin-walled apartment while your nosy roommate is home? Each of these situations might call for particular features or surface some dealbreakers. Some nice-to-have features that might be more like necessities, depending on your situation: waterproofing (for shower fun), a travel lock, quietness, and the ability to be controlled hands-free or from long-distance (usually with an app).
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The Best Vibrator: Magic Wand Rechargeable
Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: About 3 hours
How to Use: Turn on using power button, control vibration speed or change settings with the other two buttons, and place wherever you want some vibration.
Why you'll like it: This toy has a fervent fanbase, which might explain its frequent appearance in porn—and it got even better when its maker introduced a cordless, rechargeable version in 2015. It may not be the most versatile or discreet massager in the world, but its impressive vibration settings more than make up for what it lacks in subtlety.
Pros: Very powerful, 4 vibration intensities and 4 vibration patterns, doubles as a great massager for sore/tense muscles; long battery life, and can be used while charging if it dies mid-session
Cons: Too big and bulky for some sex positions, can get loud on higher settings, less-than-glamorous aesthetic
The Best Bullet Vibrator: We-Vibe Tango X
Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: Up to 2 hours
How to Use: Position on your clit (or wherever you want it) and turn it on with the “+” button. Adjust vibration speed or change settings with the buttons on the toy.
Why you'll like it: They say that good things come in small packages, and this vibe is a prime example. Its petite size makes its powerful vibrations all the more remarkable. It’s also waterproof so it’d be an ideal companion for bath-time masturbation or your next shower rendezvous.
Pros: Amazingly powerful, rumbly motor for its size, petite enough to be used in a variety of positions, 7 vibration modes with 8 intensities each; waterproof; quiet; silicone handle makes it easier to hold onto
Cons: Hard plastic may rattle uncomfortably against genital piercings if you have them
The Best G-Spot Vibrator: Dame Arc
Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: 90 minutes
How to Use: Apply water-based lube to the toy before inserting it vaginally. Hold down the power button for a few seconds to turn the toy on or off, and press that same button to change the vibration mode. Use the other two buttons to turn the vibration intensity up or down on any given mode.
Why you'll like it: With its soft, smooth silicone and slightly squishy tip, the Arc is ultra-comfortable to use. The deep curve of this vibrator helps it reach the G-spot with ease, and it packs a punch, power-wise, as well. You can also use it as a regular ol' clitoral vibe when you want to, making it extra versatile. One Amazon reviewer raved, "Excellent quality product! We love it! Worth every penny!"
Pros: Can be used both internally and externally; five vibration modes with five vibration intensity levels each; squishy tip for comfort; curve for G-spot stimulation; waterproof; quiet
Cons: Not anal-safe; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Dual-Stimulation Vibrator: We-Vibe Nova 2
Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: Up to 2 hours
How to Use: Apply water-based lubricant to both arms of the toy. Slip the internal arm inside your vagina, and position the external arm comfortably on your clit. Use the buttons on the toy to turn it on or off, adjust its intensity, or change settings. You can thrust the toy in and out or just hold it still.
Why you'll like it: "By stimulating multiple nerve pathways (externally via the clitoris and internally via the upper vaginal wall or G-zone), you’re more likely to experience intense and more full-bodied sensations," Dr. Jessica O’Reilly, a sexologist and sex and relationships expert for Lovehoney, says. However, even among dual-stimulation toys, this one stands out, due to its flexible clitoral arm which can maintain contact with your clit even as you thrust the toy in and out, for ultra-satisfying climaxes.
Pros: Simultaneous stimulation of clit and G-spot for potential blended orgasms; both components can be controlled separately or together; deep, powerful vibrations in both motors; 10 different vibration patterns; angle of internal arm is adjustable; flexible enough that you can thrust it in and out without it losing contact with your clit; flexibility also allows it to fit a broad range of anatomies; quiet; waterproof; can be controlled remotely via the We-Vibe app
Cons: Can be awkward to try to use either arm of the toy by itself, so it’s not very versatile; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Mini Wand Vibrator: Vibratex Magic Wand Mini
Materials: ABS plastic and silicone
Battery Life: About 2.5 hours
How to Use: Press the power button to turn the toy on or off, and use the other two buttons to change the vibration intensity.
Why you'll like it: If you're daunted by the hefty size of the O.G. Magic Wand but love what you've heard (or felt), you'll probably enjoy the newer additions to the Magic Wand lineup, which are smaller. This one is about two-thirds the size and half the weight of its bigger sibling, making it easier to maneuver, even during long sessions. It loses a little power from having shrunk down—but we found it plenty impressive for its size.
Pros: Smaller and lighter than a typical wand; strong, rumbly vibrations; flexible neck; long battery life
Cons: Not waterproof; may not be powerful enough for some users
The Best Ultra-Mini Wand Vibrator: Vibratex Magic Wand Micro
Materials: ABS plastic and silicone
Battery Life: Up to 3 hours
How to Use: Press the power button to turn the toy on or off, and use the “M” button to cycle through the toy’s modes.
Why you'll like it: Want an even smaller wand? This one is truly itty-bitty, measuring just 4.5 inches long—but it offers a respectable amount of power for its size. It works well in a variety of situations and positions (and it's pretty adorable-looking, too). Shout out to a great vibrator that's tiny enough to stash in a purse or a pocket for a wild night out.
Pros: Small and portable; decently strong for its size; three intensity levels and four vibration patterns; long battery life; comes with an optional wrist strap
Cons: Not waterproof; may not be powerful enough for some users
The Best Panty Vibrator: We-Vibe Moxie
Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: 2 hours
How to Use: Put the vibrator inside your underwear and secure it where you want it by placing the included magnetic clip on the outside of your underwear where the toy is. Use the button on the toy to turn it on or off and cycle through its settings, or connect it via Bluetooth to the We-Vibe app to control it from there.
Why you'll like it: Affix this panty vibe to your underwear using the included magnetic clip, pair it with the We-Connect app on your phone, and you're ready to enjoy discreet vibrations. "If you want to inject playfulness and build anticipation, the Moxie is my top recommendation," O'Reilly says. “Its vibes are rumbly and quiet so you can wear it anywhere.”
Pros: Secure magnetic clip keeps vibe in place even while walking around; strong vibrations; 10+ vibration modes; toy comes with extra magnetic clip incase you lose the first one; quiet; waterproof; app connectivity for either short-distance or long-distance play
Cons: Bluetooth connectivity can be unreliable
The Best Long-Distance Vibrator: Lovense Lush 3
Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: 5 hours
How to Use: Apply water-based lube to the toy and insert the larger end into your vagina, facing upward so that the external arm sits on your clit. Control the toy with the button on it, or by connecting it to the Lovense app on your phone.
Why you'll like it: This Bluetooth-controllable toy is a fave of many webcam performers, who let their fans titillate them from afar using Lovense’s well-designed app. With its rumbly powerful motor and lightning-fast responsiveness, it’s also the best option for long-distance couples who want to keep their sexual connection strong while they’re apart.
Pros: Strong vibrations; intensely focused G-spot stimulation; quiet enough for discreet public use; app connectivity for either short-distance or long-distance play; app has a “sync to music” function, allowing vibrations to be activated by sound; waterproof
Cons: Clitoral arm may be too slim/flimsy to stay positioned on some users’ clits; vibrations barely conduct into clitoral arm; difficult (if not impossible) to have penetrative sex while it’s in; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Couples' Vibrator: We-Vibe Sync 2
Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: Up to 2 hours
How to Use: Adjust the toy’s angle as desired by bending it at the hinge in its center. Apply water-based lube to the toy and slip the smaller side into your vagina, facing up so that the larger end is on your clit. Control the toy with its button, its included remote, or by connecting it to the We-Vibe app.
Why you'll like it: "This is the original couples' vibe," O'Reilly says. Its ingenious shape stimulates both the G-spot and clitoris at once during penetrative sex, and it can feel great when used solo too. With its 10-plus vibration modes, there's always something fun and new going on. Plus, it's waterproof for a little shower action (and it's like it gets clean in the process).
Pros: Simultaneous stimulation of the clit and G-spot; strong vibrations; 10+ vibration modes; can be used solo or with a partner, including while being penetrated vaginally with a penis or dildo; bendable and adjustable for a better fit; ridged texture helps keep toy in place during sex or masturbation; app connectivity for either short-distance or long-distance play; quiet; waterproof; can also be used in the palm of your hand to add some vibration to a handjob or blowjob
Cons: Hinge may break if bent too hard/the wrong way; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Vibrator to Use During Sex: Zumio X
Materials: ABS plastic, silicone, and thermoplastic
Battery Life: About 4 hours
How to Use: Place the tip of the toy on your clit or another external erogenous zone, adding some lube if desired. Control the toy with its buttons.
Why you'll like it: “If you like intense, pinpointed vibes that are more concentrated in one area, the Zumio X is the perfect pick,” O'Reilly says. Clitoral stimulation is the missing ingredient from standard P-in-V sex for many women, and the simplest solution is a slim, unobtrusive vibrator like the Zumio she can use on herself during the act. Since this toy uses fast "oscillations" rather than standard vibration, it can feel more intense and less numbing.
Pros: Tiny circular oscillations can be more stimulating and less numbing than standard vibration; eight oscillation speeds; very slim tip is well-suited for pinpoint stimulation; tip can be used lengthwise for a more diffuse sensation; pen-like design is ergonomic to hold onto; slim enough to pair well with penetrative sex or a dildo; quiet; waterproof; inductive charging cup makes it easy to keep the toy charged between uses
Cons: May be uncomfortably pinpointed for some users; slows down when pressure is applied; takes 16 hours to charge fully
The Best Classic Rabbit Vibrator: Lovehoney Dream Rabbit
Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: N/A
How to Use: Apply a water-based lubricant to the vibrator. Cycle between the speeds and vibrations, then insert.
Why you'll like it: Sex and the City might've made the rabbit vibrator famous, but since the ‘90s, this ingenious category of sex toys has been improved to become one of the most popular toys in a woman’s sex toy closet. This one from Lovehoney has a rotating shaft for G-spot stimulation, while the vibrator's signature “bunny ears” make for mind-blowing clitoral satisfaction. Of course it's made of body-safe silicone, otherwise we wouldn't recommend it, and it's rechargeable for hours and hours of play.
Pros: Rotating balls in shaft for G-spot stimulation; rumbly vibrations; three vibration speeds, seven vibration patterns, and three rotation speeds; arms can be controlled separately; waterproof
Cons: No internal vibration; shaft has no curve to hit the G-spot
The Best Unconventional Vibrator: Eroscillator 2 Top Deluxe
Materials: ABS plastic (body) and elastomer (attachments)
How to Use: Plug the toy in and put an attachment of your choice onto it. Apply a water-based lubricant if desired, apply the tip of the toy to your clit, and turn it on with the silver slider on the side. Adjust the oscillation intensity using the slider.
Why you'll like it: It may look like a medieval torture device, but this hilariously hideous vibrator actually feels like nothing else on the market—in a good way. It oscillates, rather than vibrating, so the sensations it creates feel deeper and it’s less likely to cause the temporary numbness some people report from vibration. I got mine over a decade ago and it literally hasn't left my nightstand since then (except when I travel!) because orgasms with it are so easy and satisfying. It also comes with multiple attachments, so you can experiment with different shapes and textures.
Pros: Oscillations are more deeply stimulating and less numbing than standard vibrations; comes with multiple attachments that all feel different and conduct the oscillations at different intensities; ridged body makes it easier to hold onto and change settings, even with lubey hands; slim enough to be used during penetrative sex; quiet
Cons: Expensive; only 3 speeds; may not be powerful enough for users who are accustomed to strong vibration; requires a nearby power outlet; not very attractive-looking; attachments are porous, so it’s harder to keep them clean
The Best Cheap Vibrator: CalExotics Turbo Glider
Materials: ABS plastic
How to Use: Insert 2 AA batteries into the toy and screw the cap closed tightly. Turn the vibe on or off and adjust its intensity with the dial at the base.
Why you'll like it: Many vibrators under $20 are made of porous materials known to cause irritation or infections, like PVC or rubber. This one, on the other hand, is made of body-safe plastic, has different speeds, is waterproof, and can provide internal or external stimulation. When it comes to cheap vibes, this one is a diamond in the rough.
Pros: Affordable; powerful for its price point; dial gives you more granular control over vibration intensity; raised bumps along shaft for vaginal wall stimulation; can be used clitorally or vaginally; waterproof; useable with any kind of lube
Cons: Loud; vibrations are relatively buzzy/surface-level; requires disposable batteries; no vibration patterns; no G-spot curve; raised bumps may feel like too much for some users (lube helps)
The Best Ultra-Powerful Vibrator: Doxy Die Cast
Materials: Aluminum, titanium, and silicone
How to Use: Plug it in, put it where you want it, and turn it on using the power button on the side. Adjust the speed with the other buttons.
Why you'll like it: While this aluminum-bodied vibrator is too heavy and bulky to earn the distinction of best wand, it’s inarguably one of the strongest vibes on the market. Anyone who just can't get enough will love this one. Its rumbly vibrations are super powerful, so get prepared to be blown away by this jackhammer of a vibrator.
Pros: Extremely powerful; beautiful and elegant-looking; “double-weighted” head for a rumblier/deeper quality of vibration; LED-lighted buttons so you can find them more easily in the dark
Cons: Loud; heavy; requires a nearby power outlet; may be uncomfortably strong for some users
The Best Finger Vibrator: Hot Octopuss Digit
Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: 40 minutes
How to Use: Slip your middle finger into the holster. Turn the toy on or off by briefly holding down the single button on its right side, and change the vibration intensity using the two buttons on its left side.
Why you'll like it: If you've found that vibrators can sometimes feel obtrusive or distracting, you might enjoy a finger vibrator like this one. Just slip your middle finger through its little "holster" and its vibrations will feel like an extension of your hand, whether you're touching yourself or a partner. We've been continually impressed with Hot Octopuss's motors, which always produce deep, rumbly vibrations, and this toy is no exception!
Pros: Powerful, rumbly vibrations; attached finger holster makes it easier to hold/use; five vibration intensities and five modes; quiet; waterproof
Cons: Short battery life; buttons are positioned somewhat awkwardly; may not fit all finger sizes
The Best Beginners' Clitoral Vibrator: Je Joue MiMi Soft
Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: About 2 hours
How to Use: Apply some water-based lube to the toy if desired, and place it on your clit or another external erogenous zone. Control the vibe with its two buttons.
When you've never used a vibrator before, often the best introduction is one that's small enough to fit into the palm of your hand and to slip between bodies unobtrusively during sex. This one is coated in soft and squishy silicone for increased comfort, and has low-frequency vibrations engineered to give you more intense orgasms.
Pros: Deep, rumbly vibrations; perfect size for holding in the palm of your hand; versatile shape for using on many different body parts; 5 vibration speeds and 7 vibration patterns; fits easily between bodies during penetrative sex; made of super soft, comfortable silicone; waterproof; 100% vegan
Cons: Might not be strong enough or firm enough for users who prefer powerful sensations or like to apply a lot of pressure; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Discreet Vibrator: Lovense Exomoon
Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: 3 hours
How to Use: Place the toy against your clit (or any other external erogenous zone). Turn it on with the button on the side, and control the settings using that same button, or by connecting the toy to the Lovense app.
Why you'll like it: This vibrator is made to look like a tube of lipstick, so TSA agents and nosy houseguests probably won't bat an eye over it. The angled tip gives you a lot of options for how to direct this toy's powerful vibrations—you can use the whole flat end of the toy for broader stimulation, or press just the very tip against your clit for a more pinpointed feel.
Pros: Strong, rumbly vibrations; discreetly disguised as a tube of lipstick; good for travel or using “on the go;" small size allows it to pair well with penetrative sex or a dildo; can be controlled via the Lovense app from nearby or from far away; sound-activated “sync to music” setting; waterproof
Cons: Only one button to cycle through all the settings
The Best Pressure-Wave Toy: Womanizer Premium
Materials: Silicone, ABS plastic, and polyurethane
Battery Life: About 4 hours
How to Use: Apply water-based lubricant to the toy’s nozzle and place it over your clit. Turn it on with the power button and use the other buttons to control vibration speed and cycle through vibration settings.
Why you'll like it: Toys like the Womanizer use rhythmic pulses of air to create a clitoral sensation that’s somewhere between sucking, tapping, and vibration. This one has an “autopilot mode” that makes it feel even more like oral pleasure from a real live human (especially when well-lubed).
Pros: Powerful and unique pressure-wave sensations; sleek aesthetic; quiet; waterproof; 14 intensity levels; long battery life; shape is ergonomic to hold onto; optional “autopilot mode” automatically changes the toy’s intensity level over time so you don’t have to; comes with two differently-sized stimulation heads to choose from
Cons: May not fit especially small or large clits; pressure waves may not be powerful enough for users who aren’t very sensitive or are used to strong vibrators; may be a bit too bulky to use during sex in missionary position
The Best Pressure-Wave Toy to Use During Sex: We-Vibe Melt
Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: Up to 2 hours
How to Use: Apply lubricant to the toy’s nozzle and place it on your clitoris. Control it with the buttons on the toy or by pairing it with the We-Connect app.
Why you'll like it: "If you’re looking for an oral sex simulator that you can use with a partner, the We-Vibe Melt uses the same Pleasure Air technology" as Womanizer toys, O'Reilly says. Where it differs is in its thinner, more streamlined shape that fits nicely between bodies during penetrative sex. Penetration and clitoral stimulation is a winning combo for lots of people, and this toy makes it easier than ever to have your cake and orgasm, too.
Pros: Flexible nozzle for increased comfort; low-profile shape allows it to fit well between bodies during sex; 12 intensity levels; waterproof; quiet
Cons: May not fit all clit sizes
The Best Beginner Pressure-Wave Toy: Satisfyer Pro 2
Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
How to Use: Apply water-based lube to the nozzle of the toy, then place it over your clitoris or other erogenous region (you may need to experiment with positions to find the one that feels best). Hold the power button for one to two seconds to turn the toy on or off. Use the “+” and “–” buttons to scroll through the toy’s intensity settings.
Why you'll like it: Combining air and suction, the Satisfyer Pro 2 creates a unique sensation on the external clitoris that's as close to real-life oral sex as can be. If you're partner's not into going downtown, or if you don't have a partner to begin with, the Pro is a great alternative for another person's mouth. Oh, and for a little extra fun, try this out on your nipples.
Pros: 11 pressure-wave intensities; soft silicone head for a better, more comfortable seal around the clitoris; waterproof; inexpensive for what it is
Cons: Won’t fit all clit sizes
The G-Spot Pressure-Wave Toy: Womanizer OG
Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: 2 hours
How to Use: Hold the power button down for two seconds to turn the toy on or off. Use the “+” and “–” buttons to control the pressure-wave stimulation and the vibration button to cycle through the toy’s three vibration settings. Apply water-based lube to the shaft and nozzle of the toy before inserting it.
Why you'll like it: Many people have discovered the merits of pressure-wave stimulation for clitoral pleasure, but it can be used on other erogenous zones too, like the G-spot. This inventive toy directs rhythmic air pulses right onto your G-spot, in combination with vibration, for a feeling you've definitely never felt before.
Pros: Combines pressure-wave stimulation with vibration for an intense sensation; deep and rumbly vibrations; 12 pressure-wave intensity levels; curve is ergonomic for thrusting and helps to hit the G-spot; waterproof
Cons: Only three vibration speeds; vibration can’t be turned off to feel the pressure waves on their own; expensive; hard to clean; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Realistic Dildo: Vixen Creations Mustang
Materials: Silicone
How to Use: Apply a water-based lubricant and slide the toy inside your vagina or butt. Thrust if desired.
Why you'll like it: Some guys’ insecurities make them feel envious or resentful of sex toys, especially realistic ones— but if you can work past those feelings, there’s a lot of freaky fun and mutual satisfaction to be found with a toy like this. Its dual-density material and gentle curve are terrific for G-spot stimulation, and can also hit your prostate if you decide to flip the script.
Pros: Super realistic-looking; dual-density silicone is firm yet comfortably squishy; harness-compatible for strap-on sex; curve and coronal ridge work well for G-spot/prostate stimulation
Cons: Can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Dildo Base/Grinder: Sili Saddle: Le Wand Ripple
Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: N/A
How to Use: Apply water-based lube to the ridged side of the toy and press it against your clit. Rub it against yourself, grind against it, use a vibrator through it, tuck it behind your dildo before strap-on play, or invent your own creative ways to use it.
Why you'll like it: This trippy-looking toy has two main purposes. First, if you're tired of getting bruised and hurt while wearing a strap-on, you can tuck the Sili Saddle into your harness before sex to soften the dildo's impact against your pubic bone. Second, you can grind your clit against the Saddle, either during strap-on play or just on your own. Humping things is a time-honored masturbation tradition for many women, and it's been cool to see sex toy companies releasing products meant for exactly that purpose. The soft silicone ridge in the center of the Saddle feels great to grind against (though don't forget the lube). We also like using the toy to diffuse powerful vibrations from a toy like a Magic Wand. The uses are endless!
Pros: Versatile; squishy, and comfortable; softens the impact of strap-on sex; good texture for grinding against; can diffuse intense vibrations from other toys
Cons: Requires some creativity to find the best use for you
The Best Wand Attachment: Hot Octopuss Digit
Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: N/A
How to Use: Slip the attachment over the head of a full-size wand vibrator (not included). Apply water-based lube before inserting the toy vaginally. Turn on the wand’s vibrations and experiment with thrusting in and out, or just holding the wand still.
Why you'll like it: If your sex toy collection already includes a standard-sized wand vibrator like the Magic Wand Rechargeable at the top (and if you ask us, you should!), buying an attachment only means more fun. The Ripple channels a wand's vibrations into a dildo-esque shape that you can insert vaginally to hit your G-spot, while a nub shimmies against your clit at the same time. Three weights embedded in the dildo part give it a really satisfying heft as it moves in and out. Basically, it turns your wand vibe into a dual-stimulation toy, doubling your pleasure.
Pros: Turns a wand vibrator into a dildo; ridged shaft and clitoral nub for targeted stimulation of sensitive spots; can be used internally, externally, or both at once
Cons: Can’t be used with silicone-based lube; only works with full-size wands; may be difficult to remove from certain wands (try adding lube to help); expensive for an add-on
The Best Luxury Dildo: Njoy Eleven
Materials: Stainless steel
How to Use: Apply a lube of your choice to whichever end you prefer, and slide it inside you (vaginally or anally).
Why you'll like it: This toy is called the Eleven because it’s 11 inches of satisfying steel; that much metal comes at a price, but for fans of big and deep penetration, it’s well worth it. The double-ended design gives you more bang for your buck, so to speak—and maybe you’ll save on gym costs, because you can definitely skip “arm day” after ploughing somebody with this toy. “This is a beautiful stainless steel dildo that is great for playing with weight, texture, and temperature,”O'Reilly says.
Pros: Beautiful; great for intense G-spot stimulation; double-ended design gives you two different size/texture options; ridges on one side make it easier to hold onto when thrusting; will last forever; comes in a gift-ready storage box with satin lining
Cons: Heavy; expensive; unyieldingly firm; may be too big for some users
The Best Glass Dildo: Pipedream Icicles G-Spotter
Materials: Glass
Battery Life: N/A
How to Use: Apply a lube of your choice to whichever end you want to use, and insert it vaginally or anally. Try rocking it in and out, pressing it against the spots that feel good, or just clenching around it.
Why you'll like it: Glass feels fantastic because it creates almost no friction, especially when lubed up, but it's also firm enough to be able to press against sensitive zones like the G-spot. Pipedream's dildo is a classic: one end is curved and the other end is beaded, so you get a variety sensations from one toy. Plus, it's as fun for couples' play as it is solo (though don't be shy about guiding the other person if they're in control).
Pros: Versatile curved and beaded shape for vaginal or anal stimulation; can be used with any kind of lube; great for temperature play
Cons: May chip/scratch/break if dropped (be careful!); may be too slim to satisfy some users
The Best Big Dildo: Fun Factory Boss
Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: N/A
How to Use: Apply water-based lube liberally before inserting vaginally or anally.
Why you'll like it: If you're of the opinion that bigger is better, you probably need a Fun Factory Boss. With its 1.75-inch diameter and 7 inches of insertable length, the Boss is meaty but not monstrous. It's got a gentle curve for hitting your favorite inner erogenous zones, and its subtly veiny texture hints at realism without looking like something from an anatomy book. "This dildo is on the girthier side, and has a pronounced head for a 'popping in and out' sensation. It seriously felt great on my G-spot," one Babeland reviewer wrote.
Pros: Good width and length for those who like it big; gentle curve for G-spot/P-spot stimulation; anal-safe; harness-compatible; suction-cup base for hands-free use
Cons: Can’t be used with silicone-based lube; may be too large or firm for some users; matte silicone texture requires a lot of lube
The Best Vaginal Plug: Hole Punch Fluke
Materials: Silicone
How to Use: Apply some water-based lube to the toy and insert it vaginally (or anally, if you prefer).
Why you'll like it: OK, so it might be one of the only vaginal plugs on the market, but still. This toy is great for applying pleasurable pressure against the G-spot while you do other stuff, like kissing, external fingering, or oral sex. Some of my most stellar orgasms have happened from my partner going down on me while I had this toy inside me.
Pros: Perfectly shaped for effortless G-spot stimulation; can be worn during non-penetrative sex (e.g. while receiving oral sex) to intensify those sensations; flared base makes it safe for either vaginal or anal use; harness-compatible for strap-on sex
Cons: Some users might find it uncomfortably girthy or too firm; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Solid G-Spot Toy: Njoy Pure Wand
Materials: Stainless steel
How to Use: Apply a lube of your choice to your preferred end of the toy and slide it inside your vagina or butt. You can thrust it in and out, gently rock it back and forth, hold it still, or some combination of these.
Why you'll like it: This gorgeous toy’s solid stainless steel construction makes it ideal for applying firm pressure to the G-spot. Just prepare to be in the splash zone if your partner is a squirter. (Waterproof poncho, anyone?)
Pros: Deep curve for G-spot and prostate stimulation; firm material makes stimulation even more intense; double-ended design gives you two size options to choose from; can be used with any kind of lube; good for temperature play; will last basically forever; comes in a gift-ready storage box with satin lining
Cons: Heavy; may be uncomfortably firm for some users; can be hard to pair a medium-to-large clitoral vibe with it, because the curve of the toy gets in the way
The Best Anal Plug: Njoy Pure Plug
Materials: Stainless steel
How to Use: Apply a lube of your choice and slide the plug into your butt.
Why you'll like it: This luxe metal plug is blissfully smooth, compatible with all lubricants, and heavy enough to be pleasantly noticeable but not so heavy as to be uncomfortable. Though it also comes in small and large versions, the medium one is an ideal size for most anal newbies.
Pros: Both the plug itself and its base are comfortable; can indirectly stimulate the G-spot through the vaginal wall; great for temperature play; can be used with any kind of lube
Will last basically forever; beginner-friendly size, with other size options available; looped base makes removal easier; made to stay in place well, so you can wear it while having sex or even while out and about; comes in a gift-ready storage box with satin lining
Cons: May be uncomfortably firm for some users; cold to the touch unless you pre-warm it
The Best Vibrating Butt Plug: B-Vibe Rimming Plug Petite
Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: 90 minutes
How to Use: Apply water-based lube to the plug before inserting it. Control its settings with the button on the base of the toy, or with the included remote.
Why you'll like it: Anal vibration is a truly unique sensation that has to be experienced to be understood—those nerve endings are wildly sensitive and, for most people, not often stimulated in a sexual way, so putting vibration on them can be an eye-opening experience. This plug vibrates at the tip and has rotating beads embedded toward the base of the toy, so you'll get a double-whammy of internal and external stimulation when you use it. The small size of this plug (3.9 inches of insertable length, with a 1.4-inch diameter) makes it suitable for beginners to butt stuff, although more experienced users may enjoy its varied sensations too. One Babeland reviewer called it “cataclysmic, sheet-grasping [and] toe-curling!”
Pros: Features vibrations internally and rotating beads at the anal entrance; five intensity levels and six patterns; good size for beginners; can be remotely controlled from up to 30 feet away; waterproof; comes with a travel case
Cons: No curve to hit sensitive spots (e.g. the G-spot through the vaginal wall); may not be powerful enough for some users; can’t be used with silicone-based lube
The Best Thruster: Fun Factory Stronic G
Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: About 45 minutes
How to Use: Apply some water-based lube to the toy and slip it inside your vagina, with the head facing up toward your G-spot. Turn it on with the “Fun” button and control the thrusting speed with the other two buttons.
Why you'll like it: Many G-spots crave fast, firm pressure that can get tiring to provide by hand. This innovative toy physically thrusts back and forth against that spot, freeing up your hands to do other things. Some may find it's a little too thick, i.e. girthy, for them, but this offers a helluva good time, especially if you use it with a partner.
Pros: Intense G-spot stimulation; automatic, hands-free thrusting; your partner can use it on you while giving you oral sex, for some added G-spot stimulation that requires almost no effort/focus on their part; waterproof
Cons: May be too girthy for some users; short battery life and takes six to eight hours to recharge fully; may wiggle out of you if not anchored in place by a pillow (or similar) between your legs; thrusting is not as powerful as that of a full-size machine; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Nipple Clamps: CalExotics Crystal Chain Clamps
Materials: Metal with silicone-coated tips
How to Use: Clip clamps onto nipples and use the screws at the side of each clamp to adjust their tightness. Leave on for about 15 minutes at most before removing.
Why you'll like it: These elegant clamps are adjustable, so they should suit nervous newbies and seasoned sadomasochists alike. Tug on the chain between them whenever you think the wearer needs a twinge of sexy pain. These clamps are easy to use, and they make a great entry point for those looking to get into a little pain play.
Pros: Silicone tips are more comfortable than metal and stay put better; chain can be tugged to momentarily intensify pain; adjustable tension for a custom fit; affordable; nickel-free
Cons: As with all clamps, can cause numbness, tingling, and health issues if left on for too long or used improperly; chain is non-removable so clamps can’t be used individually
The Best Strap-On Harness: SpareParts Joque
Materials: Spandex and polyester
How to Use: Step into the harness and adjust the straps to fit your body. Insert a dildo through the O-ring in the front. When you’re done, take the dildo out and launder the harness.
Why you'll like it: Whether pegging is a frequent part of your sex life or just an item on your bucket list, this harness is a fantastic choice. It’s comfortable, adjustable, fits a wide range of dildo sizes, and features a pocket that holds a small vibrator for clitoral stimulation for full sensory overload.
Pros: Comfortable; strong and sturdy; machine-washable; adjustable leg straps and belt; open design allows for the wearer’s genitals to be touched or penetrated during use; contains a small pouch in which you can insert a bullet vibrator for the wearer’s pleasure; stretchy O-ring fits many different dildo sizes; vegan-friendly
Cons: O-ring cannot be swapped out for one of a different size, so you can’t use very girthy or very slim dildos with it; arguably not as sexy-looking as some leather harnesses (though that’s a matter of personal taste)
The Best Clit Pump: CalExotics Mini Silicone Clitoral Pump
Materials: Silicone and plastic
How to Use: Apply water-based lubricant to the silicone rim around the edge of the pump and place it over your clit, spreading your outer labia first if needed. Gently and slowly squeeze the hand pump to introduce a small amount of suction, and work your way up to a comfortable and pleasurable suction level (it should never hurt). Leave on for no more than 10-15 minutes at a time before releasing the pressure with the quick-release button on the hand pump.
Why you'll like it: This toy was my introduction to clit pumps, and I'm so glad it was, because its simple design makes it easy for even total beginners to experiment with the pleasures of clit suction. Clit pumps are especially good for people who struggle with arousal, because they bring blood flow to the area, increasing excitement and sensitivity, but their positive effects can be enjoyed by anyone with a clit. Just make sure to use lube and start slow and gentle. To up the ante, you can hold a vibrator against the pump, and the vibrations will transmit through the whole area.
Pros: Affordable; easy to use; produces suction that can increase arousal, lubrication, and clitoral engorgement, for more pleasurable sex/masturbation afterward; manual quick-release button for safety; silicone rim helps form a better seal and prevents pump edges from digging into your skin, and can be removed for easier washing
Cons: Doesn’t vibrate or do anything besides create suction; no gauge to measure the amount of suction being applied; silicone rim may fall off or get lost, and can’t be easily replaced
The Best DIY Sex Toy: Clone-a-Pussy Plus
Materials: Silicone and plastic, plus molding materials such as algae-based molding powder
How to Use: Follow the instructions included in the kit. (Trust me, they’re too lengthy to fit into this article! But they are posted online if you’re curious.)
Why you'll like it: While your junk is one-of-a-kind, "cloning" it can be surprisingly fun. This kit contains everything you need to make a silicone copy of your vulva, capturing every last ripple and contour. Attach it to the front of the included masturbation sleeve and you've got the perfect gift for a partner who always misses your body when you're apart, whether they're just going on a weekend work trip or you've been long-distance for years.
Pros: Creates a lifelike “clone” of your vulva; comes with a Fleshlight-esque masturbation sleeve that your vulva “clone” can be attached to; makes for a unique and original gift, or a fun science experiment to do together; available in various different colors and skin tones
Cons: Process may be too complicated and challenging for some users to figure out, and it’s easy to make mistakes if you haven’t read the instructions carefully enough: process is pretty messy (do it in the kitchen or bathroom for best results); requires you to own a measuring cup, large mixing bowl, timer, large mixing spoon, disposable paper/plastic cup, and scissors; the inside of the masturbation sleeve isn’t molded from your actual vagina (science has not yet developed a cost-effective or non-invasive way of doing this)
The Best Toy for Self-Love in the Tub: WaterSlyde
Materials: ABS plastic with velvet ribbon
How to Use: Tie the WaterSlyde to your bath faucet with the included ribbon. Run a bath, get into it, and position your clit (or another sensitive body part) under the end of the WaterSlyde’s spout. Adjust the temperature and pressure using your bath faucet.
Why you'll like it: If you ever went through a bathtub masturbation phase like I did, then you know that water flowing onto your most sensitive bits can be super pleasurable and even orgasmic. But positioning your junk under a bath faucet can be tricky, which is where the WaterSlyde comes in. It's a plastic apparatus that you can attach to your bath faucet with the included ribbon, and it'll divert water directly onto your clit (or any other sensitive body part you can comfortably position under its spout), making it easy to get off while you're getting clean. Sometimes the best inventions are the simplest ones, y'know?
Pros: Affordable; attaches easily to any forward-facing bathtub spout; great for travel. Masturbating with water is all-natural, hygienic, usually non-irritating, and requires no batteries or power source
Cons: Requires you to have a bathtub, of course; water is not usually as intensely stimulating as, say, vibration; may require you to get into a somewhat contorted body position; may involve using a lot of water, depending on how long you use it for; water pressure and temperature is limited to whatever your own bath offers; large and brightly colored, so it’s not terribly discreet if you’re seen transporting it to or from the bathroom
The Best Rideable Vibrator: Cowgirl
Materials: Steel, aluminum, plastic, polyurethane, and silicone
How to Use: Find a stable spot to set the Cowgirl down (a hard floor is best). Plug it in and put one of the included attachments on it. Apply some water-based lube to the attachment and ride it however you want (some attachments are penetrative and some are better for just grinding against). When you’re done, remove the attachment to wash it, and wipe down the seat to clean it.
Why you'll like it: Giddy up, partner, and go for a ride! This massive sex machine is not for the faint of heart (or the faint of clit), but if you like world-shaking vibrations, it might be a worthy investment. In addition to vibrating, it's got a dildo attachment that can rotate a full 360 degrees, to give you the ride of your life. If you want to give up control, hand the attached remote to your partner—or connect the toy to the Cowgirl app on their phone. Yeehaw!
Pros: Offers both vibration and 360-degree rotation, which can each be controlled independently; 6 vibration patterns and variable speeds; incredibly strong vibrations; comfortably padded seat made of vegan leather, which can be wiped down easily when you’re done; comes with 2 silicone attachments; others are available to buy; slip-resistant silicone base for extra stability while riding (also protects your floor from scratches); can be controlled remotely using the Cowgirl app; no assembly required; accommodates users weighing up to 400 pounds
Cons: Very loud; very expensive; very large and heavy; requires a nearby power outlet; app is needlessly complicated; “riding” position may be uncomfortable for some users, especially those with hip/knee issues; will vibrate the floor a lot (so not great if you have downstairs neighbors)
The Best Vibrating Nipple Clamps: Lovense Gemini
Materials: Silicone, plastic, and nylon
Battery Life: 2 hours
How to Use: Hold down the power button for three to five seconds to turn the toy on or off. Control its intensity with the same button, or pair it with the Lovense app and control it that way. Don’t leave clamps on for more than about 15 minutes at a time, and remove them immediately if you feel numbness or tingling.
Why you'll like it: Vibrations can feel wonderful on nipples, but it's rare to find a toy designed specifically for this purpose. The tightness of these clamps is adjustable, so you can find the exact balance of pain to pleasure that you're looking for. Connect the toy to the Lovense app on your phone to control it more easily, or to invite a long-distance partner to control it.
Pros: Bluetooth-compatible; can be used long-distance; adjustable tightness; comes with an optional necklace or bra clip to keep clamps in place; four vibration patterns
Cons: Fairly bulky and heavy for nipple clamps; can’t be worn discreetly under clothes; only three steady vibration speeds
